Situationship…
Let’s say, you were talking to someone (never made it official) for about four years… After said four years, you finally decide that if it wasn’t more, you’d have to let go… The person then gets in a relationship and the both of you go about ten months without talking to each other, then suddenly linking up… You have a great two evenings together, then you start contemplating going back to this non-relationship that y’all never had…. BUT this person is still in a relationship… Could you handle it? Is it wrong to still have feelings for someone after all of this time KNOWING that they will never take that step to get y’all on the next level? Even after conversations/communication that was lacking before and everything feeling right… You have to be crazy to keep pushing great potential away for this one person who seems unable to ever tell you the truth… They tell you that they broke up with this person, and they want it to work with you but this person constantly talks about how they are still with and love them…
I wasn’t built for that other woman life… My conscious exists and it definitely gets the best of me. So no matter how much I’d ever love this person, I had no choice but to say goodbye… We had been friends for years before testing this dating thing four years ago, but I don’t even think that we can remain friends… the situation is just crazy right now… It’s a terrible situationship!
